Kevin-Joel (KJ) Coupland
the "Couples Guy"
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They say opposites attract. And early on, that's often true — their calm steadied your chaos, their boldness lit up your caution, their warmth thawed something in you. But somewhere down the road, the same equation can quietly shift: opposites attract... and then, maybe, opposites attack.

For a long time I was really confused by their riding style. I could not understand: he doesn't respect the start time, he's not paying attention, he's quite unpredictable on his bike. Then I started to understand a bit more about how their heads might work — both of them have ADHD — and a lot of what looked like carelessness started to look like something else..

For a person with ADHD, they tend to prioritize interesting over importance or urgency. This challenge can be understood and overcome.